She’s Already Moved On… And You Can’t Stop Thinking About It

It happens at the worst times.

~Late at night.
~Early in the morning.
~In the middle of something you’re supposed to be focused on.

Out of nowhere - she’s there again, with him.

And it does something to you.

Your chest tightens.
Your stomach drops.
Your thoughts start racing.

It’s the last bloody thing you want to think about it…

But you can’t seem to stop.

You keep asking yourself questions you don’t even want the answers to.

Who is he?
What does he have that I don’t?
Is she happier with him?
Did she ever feel that way about me?

And on, and on, and on goes your mind.

The worst part?

It’s not just that she’s gone.

It’s how she’s moved on, so quickly, so suddenly and the finality of it all is baffling.

You’re left trying to figure it out and stuck in a loop of what if's.

It feels like if you could just understand it
Like, really understand.

Then maybe the thoughts would stop.

Maybe you’d know what to say, what to do, and how to fix it.

Maybe… you could still turn this around.

Because deep down…

There’s a part of you that isn’t ready to let her go.

Maybe you’re even hoping to find a way back.

You might be telling yourself to stop.

~To get over it.
~To move on.
~To “be strong.”

But that doesn’t work.

Because these aren't thoughts you’re choosing to have.

They're thoughts your mind keeps pulling you back into…
Like you mind is flying solo, obsessed with finding a single neat answer.

Going over it again and again.

But it doesn’t, and it can't.

And every time you go back there…
You don’t suddenly find clarity.

You just get another hit of the same feeling.

Without realising it…
You are feeding the thing that’s hurting you.

Frankly, it’s exhausting.

All it does is keep you spinning, and it leaves you right where you started.

But the part no one really tells you is:

That this isn’t about her anymore.

Yes, It feels like it is.
Even looks like it is.

But what’s really happening…

Is that your mind has locked onto something it can’t resolve.

And instead of letting go…

It keeps circling back.

Over and over again.

It’s not weakness.
Nor is there something wrong with you.

It's just that right now, you don’t have a way to stop the spiral.

Many men stay stuck for far too long, years even.

Stuck in their own head.

Going over the same thoughts.

Looking for answers that never come.

Trying to numb it.

A few drinks to switch it off.
Throwing themselves into work.
Staying busy all the time to keep from facing the reality.

But the second things slow down…

There it is again, lurking in the dark, waiting for quiet moments.

See, no matter what you do on the outside
If your mind keeps doing the same loop…

Nothing can or will ever change.

And this is where it starts to cost you.

You pay with your focus, energy and ultimately your sanity.

You don’t need more answers right now.

You need a way to stop the spiral.

It's exactly what I used when I was faced with the same thing.

And it's simple enough that it helps to break that looping.

And start getting your head back under control,

without trying to figure everything out

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